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How Stoicism Helps Us Overcome Fear, Anxiety and Uncertainty

In Stoic philosophy, fear is primarily understood as a consequence of misdirected judgments and desires concerning things that lie outside an individual's control. The Stoic approach emphasizes that tranquility is achieved by discerning what is within one's power and what is not, thereby framing fear as an impediment to a virtuous and rational life.

The Causes of Fear According to Stoic teachings, fear originates not from external events themselves, but from one's judgments and perceptions of them (Epictetus, The Discourses, Book 2, Chapter 1). This perspective highlights that "Things themselves touch not the soul, not in the least degree," suggesting that the emotional impact of an event is an internal construct, not an inherent quality of the event itself. Anxiety, a close kin to fear, is specifically attributed to "desiring things that are not within your control" (Epictetus, The Discourses, Book 2, Chapter 13). This means that when an individual places their well-being on outcomes or objects beyond their personal agency, such as material possessions or the actions of others, they inevitably open themselves to fear.

Furthermore, fear is often stimulated by perceived external threats, which are deemed to "only have power over things you should be indifferent to, such as your body and possessions" (Epictetus, The Discourses, Book 4, Chapter 7). This principle underscores the Stoic distinction between what is truly good or bad for the soul (virtue and vice, respectively) and what is merely preferred or dispreferred (health, wealth, pain, death). The fear of pain and death, for example, are identified as elements outside one's control that can become "the true masters of the fearful" (Epictetus, The Discourses, Book 1, Chapter 29). Seneca notes that "fear looks not to the effect, but to the cause of the effect" (Seneca, Moral Letters to Lucilius, Chapter 57), indicating that fear often anticipates potential harm rather than focusing on the present reality. Many anxieties, in fact, arise from "future events that may never occur," leading to suffering from problems that exist "only in your imagination" (Seneca, Moral Letters to Lucilius, Chapter 13).

Dealing with Fear The Stoic approach to dealing with fear centers on the consistent application of the principle of control, redirecting focus from external circumstances to internal responses.

In essence, Stoicism teaches that fear is an internal phenomenon, generated by our evaluations of external occurrences rather than the occurrences themselves. The path to overcoming fear lies in rigorous self-discipline, specifically in understanding and adhering to the dichotomy of control, focusing on one's own judgments and actions, and cultivating virtue in the face of all external events.

Key Passages

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So true it is that fear looks not to the effect, but to the cause of the effect.— Moral Letters to Lucilius by Seneca
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We ought therefore to train ourselves so that we may avoid a fear of the one or a desire for the other.— Moral Letters to Lucilius by Seneca
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But what is philosophizing? Is it not a preparation against events which may happen?— The Discourses by Epictetus

Disclaimer: Article generated using Memento Vivere AI tool, and is grounded solely in the works of Epictetus, Seneca and Marcus Aurelius. For informational purposes only. Not a substitute for professional advice.

App Author’s Personal Take

Is fear and anxiety the same thing?

This is a random thought that came to my mind when thinking about the topic. It may or may not be related to the subject. Either way, if anxiety=fear, am I afraid of something that hasn't happened (and may or may not happen), or I fear the fear itself?

I am coming back to mother Earth and will examine several possible real-life scenarions:

  • Fear of losing job: Is it in my control? No. What do I control? My actions. Stoicism says to do the right thing. The right thing to do is to do your job well. If I do my job well, I'm less likely to lose it. And if I still lose it - why should I worry about it if there is nothing else I can do about it?
  • Illness: Is it up to me whether I get ill or not? No. What is in my control? My actions. I can eat healthy, exercise, be proactive about my health in general. I get ill regardless? So I get ill. What can I do about it? Nothing. Why worry about it?
  • Judgement from others: If I do the right thing - do my job well, am a kind person, and treat others well - why should I worry about what others think? Are their opinions and judgements in my control? No.

Several Stoic teachings come to my mind:

  • Marcus Aurelius scolded himself for being afraid of death: I am struggling every day, feel anxious, sometimes don't want to get out of bed, have to deal with selfish and mean people - what am I exactly afraid of? Not to wake up to all of this?
  • Seneca famously wrote that often we suffer in our imagination more than in reality.
  • Remember the 4 Stoic virtues: Justice. Courage. Wisdom. Temperance.
  • All we control is our thoughts and actions. Everything else is not up to us.

Paraphrasing Epictetus, given all that, where is room left for fear and anxiety?

About the Author

Marty Paukstys is a parent, business owner, science and data enthusiast, avid reader, and a strong believer in lifelong learning - whether for professional or personal growth.

He approaches philosophy the way he approaches work and family life - with curiosity, discipline, and a sense of humor about his own flaws.

Philosophy caught his attention as a practical way to navigate today’s digital noise and clutter. He has been studying Stoicism, particularly Epictetus, Marcus Aurelius and Seneca, along with modern thinkers such as Ryan Holiday and Massimo Pigliucci.

He started Memento Vivere as a personal tool - a natural synergy between modern technology and ancient, timeless wisdom. Now it’s available to anyone interested in Stoicism and personal growth.